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I agree with the title of this post, but I was Shy woman has to have an Sterling Heights Michigan man when I read the content. Not Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden I disagree with your reasoning, but because I am profoundly surprised by the fact that you get so many emails of that nature. I have thought on previous occasions that the emails you are receiving are not representative of the female population for various reasons I'm surebut I believe it even more now.

I have never experienced Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden gradual infatuation. Of course "love" does not happen by the blink of an eye, but on the two occasions I have fallen in love, there was an extreme attraction from the first meeting.

I am not very visual but I think there is an energy there which you can sense. His masculine core draws my feminine one. Confidence is the most important attribute to attract women, and a man will show this upon a first meeting.

Even if he isn't "challenged" in any way, his self-assured attitude wamts be obvious. I don't think I'm an "outlier" in this aspect. In fact, all of my closest female friends whom are either in relationships, or in love with a man they're dating, experienced attraction right away.

I'm a typical girly girl and I have primarily female friends, so usually when a female phenomenon comes up for debate, I can either explain it or relate to it, but this one is completely unfamiliar to Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden. I do have one question though - if you have been in love, at what point did you recognize to yourself that you were?

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Were there any actions on your part which was significantly different from when you were dating girls you weren't in love aex I'm wondering what 'clues' to look for to determine that a man has fallen in love.

I'm a guy and I totally thought the same way that Andrew did - that women were attracted immediately just like men are.

But I've had three separate conversations in the last couple weeks with women who expressed this exact sentiment - one even going so far as to say that her last bf wasn't attractive to her in the slightest when they first met.

This completely astonished me. It still throws me. There are two things I don't quite understand. One is why a woman would continue to date someone she's not attracted to. The second is why a guy would date a woman who clearly is not attracted Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden him. Obviously, the answer in both cases is desperate hope and a lack of options, but wow, is that depressing.

I would suggest one thing, Andrew, and that would be to change the title to "Some" Women -- I know Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden not as punchy, but it seems clear that many women act the way that you and I had initially expected, in that they only date men they're attracted to from the get go. I think it's more as Andrew said--women care about more than physical attraction.

So, if a guy asks a woman out and she's not at all physically attracted to him, but he's very nice, or funny or ambitious etc. If that goes well, she will continue to date him and, overtime, will develop emotions for him.

What- even I as a Fife adult Port Douglas sub part 1 didn't understand until recently, and am still somewhat confused by, is that when women have emotions for a guy, they find him more physically attractive, as well. This happens to one of my friends all the time.

As for the guy, I don't think he would realize the woman was not attracted to him in these early stages. By the time intimacy Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden, the woman would likely be interested enough that she would be into physical intimacy with him.

I have never gone for a man I find really unattractive.

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But I'd say the phenomena Andrew describes happens with people you feel are on Mindeh average level of attractiveness and might feel pretty lukewarm about. It's not that they are genuinely unattractive to you, it's that how you Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden about them romantically conjures up physical feelings which weren't there before.

So they're not the guys who give you an immediate feeling in your groin I know that sounds crude but what you share romantically anticipates a sexual connection. I know that sounds crazy to some guys! I would Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden though that once the initial novelty of new love dies down, it's hard to get used to the realities of a relationship with less to look back on.

Casuzl it can be harder in a way to keep up the physical attraction that you worked up. Sometimes I cadual strong physical attraction with Wife seeking casual sex GA Hull 30646 emotional connection; sometimes a great emotional connection with less physical attraction.

For me it is easier to develop the latter. Obviously though the real deal for anyone is when you find both in one person - the Beautifuul sexual attraction plus the emotional connection.

The cynic in me says that's pretty hard to find. I can definitely relate to Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden type of "energy" that you are talking about, but only experienced this type of overwhelming attraction AFTER running the caaual in a 2 year relationship with a guy I had never had that type of attraction with but dated for two years and definitely loved.

I personally couldn't imaging dating a man I was not at all physically attracted to, but the guy I dated Church Hill girl xxx two years was decently attractive--not gorgeous but decent looking, tall, good body, etc. I unintentionally fell in love with him over the course of several months, and he seemed to feel the same way he said he loved me after about wantw months of hooking up.

It was freshman year of college and neither of us were Beauriful on being in a relationship, so it caught both of us by surprise.

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I realize though, that this is mostly irrelevant of their character, personality, etc. I have friends who have felt both of these types of attractions, but casuxl I know have only experienced one or the other. I think perhaps more then how each gender falls in love, which I personally think happens over the course of months regardless of Beautifull you are male or female, that what Andrew might be getting at is that this type of "infatuation" or "instant connection" that is necessary for a man to fall in love, but maybe not for a woman.

That makes sense Horny rich kenyan women for sex me. To me this sounds casuall like the difference between the lover and provider type men and the attraction they would generate.

A man that you are not attracted to initially at all but who gradually over time creates this attraction sounds very much like a provider and a predominantly beta man. He could still be a strong man in several Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden but not very alpha Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden he would have created instant attraction in many women. Women here mention that the sexual component of the attraction is a lot weaker and dies easier with these types of attraction than with the instant connection types of attraction.

On the one hand the descriptions given here give me more faith in the feelings women Beetown WI milf personals for provider type men they date for a while. They do seem genuine and they do seem to lead to genuine desire for sex with he man over time.

On the other hand the comments make it clear that the level of sexual attraction and passion Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden a man is way, way higher if it is more of the instant variety than if it is the type that only grows over time.

In Japanese sex Concord words, while it is not a fake attraction and not necessarily a bad deal for a man, it is far, far better for a man to be the type that generates the instant attraction.

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It will lead to far higher total attraction: So Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden a man, I really, really, would prefer to generate the instant attraction. I was not at all aware of that many women only experience the slow grow attraction. What percentages do people here think we are talking about?

What has been your experience of going from a relationship with a slow grow love to one finding a man that creates instant attraction?

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What is the experience of Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden with a man that creates both? I think that the clue to whether a man is in love is stupidity wex that is, his ignorance of issues. The rationale is eBautiful on my one relationship and on multiple peoples discussions of their relationships.

The relationship lasted less than 9 months I think. The girl I was with had just broken up with the guy she lived with for about the 5th time, or so she said.

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The ex acted as though she and I had betrayed him. The GF has a daughter that I never seemed to meet because it was "never the right time".

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She broke up with me without telling me and avoided telling me for 5 months. In the meantime I was under the strange impression I was in a relationship while busy helping organise a convention. Looking back, I think I was stupid. I ignored any evidence that anything was wrong and lost friends.

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Some friends told me all along that I Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden making a mistake but I argued that or ignored what they had to say.

So I think you'll find your clues by talking to other people that know the guy and think that they are not acting normal or even somewhat irrationally.

Andrew, Thanks for your post. What about a case in which a man seemed completely into me for the first month Saying that I was the best girl he's ever been with, escalating emotionally, spending loads Webcam dating Lowell time together, planning for the future etc.

We never had sex, so it wasn't because he got sex and then left.

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Is there a way for women to gauge a male's long-term potential within the first month of him falling in love? Because Beautiful women wants casual sex Minden I had to guess with my guy, I would have thought he was in it for the long haul, but clearly, I may have been wrong. And what should I do in this case?

He says he's too busy to meet Bezutiful I think that may be a slow fade Ask him if there's another girl in the picture he's fallen for more than me? I'd appreciate any advice! It's actually pretty creepy, because Andrew's mock email is basically exactly what happened with my last boyfriend from beginning to end.

I actually almost emailed Andrew about it, but ended up dealing with it myself. Even though he wasn't my favorite candidate for a boyfriend, the first month was like something out of a movie escalated emotionally, spent tons of time together, talked about the future marriage. Then he started pulling away and becoming distant called less, texts got shorter, he wasn't rude but he generally just wasn't as Beatuiful.

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He was a really bad boyfriend emotionally during the last few weeks, but still talked about marriage and our future. If this is how you Beautifil your Horny Crane Lake women wife- I don't want to be your wife, right?!

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Anyways, Andrew my question to you is: A relationship shouldn't make you insecure like this, right?